Perhaps they're right.

There are many phases in life to overcome. This particular one happened to be the hardest. I always thought I was self sufficient and that if anything like this had taken place in where I came from, I could have handled it better. I wouldn't have to mess up my life (or other people's) because everything back home was just so easy.

So happen, the great-eternal force decides to throw it at me here when I am miles away from home, with new surroundings, not many friends which forces me to make it work all over again.

I understand myself better than before. And I'm working very hard to be my own pillar.