It’s not a bad thing to want to be a “kind and nice person”.
But it’s not worth it if you want it so badly that you lose yourself and you end up with a bigger loss.
In fact being nice could well be the most beautiful attribute that a person can have.
So that’s why being nice at anytime to anyone is something that a person can’t do.
When you’re annoyed you might respond roughly when someone talks to you.
You would think then, ‘Ah, why didn’t I respond nicely?’
For people who have this thought and then blame themselves for it, there is no need to restrain yourself in this way.
In this world there are detestable people and people with ill intentions.
Although the Bible says, ‘Love thy enemies’, it’s more important to try to stick to your own will.
In reality it’s not so easy to be nice to all of mankind.
Kindness and love, it’s fine as long as you stick to your style.
Isn’t it tiring to do things that are “unlike yourself”?
I don’t need everyone to like me.
It’s enough to focus all your emotions towards the people most dear to you.
From an essay by Mr Saigo Shigeta…
But it’s not worth it if you want it so badly that you lose yourself and you end up with a bigger loss.
In fact being nice could well be the most beautiful attribute that a person can have.
So that’s why being nice at anytime to anyone is something that a person can’t do.
When you’re annoyed you might respond roughly when someone talks to you.
You would think then, ‘Ah, why didn’t I respond nicely?’
For people who have this thought and then blame themselves for it, there is no need to restrain yourself in this way.
In this world there are detestable people and people with ill intentions.
Although the Bible says, ‘Love thy enemies’, it’s more important to try to stick to your own will.
In reality it’s not so easy to be nice to all of mankind.
Kindness and love, it’s fine as long as you stick to your style.
Isn’t it tiring to do things that are “unlike yourself”?
I don’t need everyone to like me.
It’s enough to focus all your emotions towards the people most dear to you.
From an essay by Mr Saigo Shigeta…
Source: Shinhwa Kim Dongwan’s Naver blog
(Translators Note: Psychiatrist and essayist Shigeta Saito (1916-2006) who wrote numerous essays analyzing relationships, mainly within families.)
Translated by: midnightgirl13@absolutshinhwa.wordpress.com
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Yep. Happy Belated Birthday Kim Dong Wan. :)
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